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Originally posted by cedric View PostBro, u are 100% right.. easier said than done... but just ask yourself... everytime you are angry about something... you think about it.. more negative thoughts comes in... the more angry and inbalanced u becomes... so why ponder on about that thought.. (especially since the person is not responding)... we are in control of our mind and in turn, our emotions..... so got to control, go to try to forgive and forget (or at least forget)... Just live another happier day... (it will be happier already if you forget about just one angry thing)... and of course, just my two cents worth... no offence to anyone.. hope none is taken.:
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Originally posted by cedric View PostBro.. not trying to offend you but as i said earlier... just let it go... the guy is apparently no responding no more.. so no point going on... just let it go.. and live another happier day... just my two cents worth... no offenceOriginally posted by flagship View PostYou are right bro. Forgive and forget, sour grapes made lousy wine
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Bad rating is not alway a bad thing
Originally posted by Darkangel View PostNot impossible
what goes on between a buyer and seller.
It cannot verify whether a transaction has indeed occured. Someone may act in bad faith and provide a bad rating to another when in actual fact, there was no transaction. Again it is difficult to verify.
Logically therefore intervention on the part of the moderator may not be the
solution. It could open a can of worms. For instance, a transaction has
indeed occured. But one party is not happy and provides a bad rating.
Naturally, the other party will want this to be reversed.
Bad rating is part and parcel of the risk associated with biz transaction. In
fact the emergence of bad rating shows that a certain maturity has
arrived in the evaluation system.
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Originally posted by R-oyster View PostMy view is that the forum facilitates, but should have no responsibility for
what goes on between a buyer and seller.
It cannot verify whether a transaction has indeed occured. Someone may act in bad faith and provide a bad rating to another when in actual fact, there was no transaction. Again it is difficult to verify.
Logically therefore intervention on the part of the moderator may not be the
solution. It could open a can of worms. For instance, a transaction has
indeed occured. But one party is not happy and provides a bad rating.
Naturally, the other party will want this to be reversed.
Bad rating is part and parcel of the risk associated with biz transaction. In
fact the emergence of bad rating shows that a certain maturity has
arrived in the evaluation system.
But there should be Appear system in any forum where Members can give their point of view and Moderators to be the fair judge.
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Originally posted by R-oyster View PostMy view is that the forum facilitates, but should have no responsibility for
what goes on between a buyer and seller.
It cannot verify whether a transaction has indeed occured. Someone may act in bad faith and provide a bad rating to another when in actual fact, there was no transaction. Again it is difficult to verify.
Logically therefore intervention on the part of the moderator may not be the
solution. It could open a can of worms. For instance, a transaction has
indeed occured. But one party is not happy and provides a bad rating.
Naturally, the other party will want this to be reversed.
Bad rating is part and parcel of the risk associated with biz transaction. In
fact the emergence of bad rating shows that a certain maturity has
arrived in the evaluation system.
hi bro R-oyster 1st i will like to clarify that i did not ask bro darkangel (a moderator) to reverse my rating. bro darkangel also did not said he will do it, he only said it possible. also it up to the moderators. 2nd u r correct to said that if any reverse will open up alot of arguement and a alot whole lots of possibility. but i do not agree with your saying that bad rating is part and parcel of risk associated with biz transaction. yah since u said it biz so i must protect my integrity and have a good name so it will not affects my biz. in this case i really feel i did not do anything wrong. pls don use me as an example and just protest once anyone give u a bad rating. u got to have some proof ok. i cant go to the extent to sue him correct? so this is the least i can do. also pls take note u yourself said it a transaction. but the truth is no transaction takes place that brings us back to your point that i cannot prove this transaction did not take place. but based on evidences
1: see what r the contents the guy wrote on my bad rating. it does not take a genius to know that a transaction did not take place.
2: did u know before i put up this thread, there was another thread about this case that was already been locked up. there r contents that the guy wrote that all we did was only sms. so it that clear enough?
3: can u give u a bad rating now? i just sold u my watever watches and i don like the way u deal. hahah, just kidding, hope u don mind. see what i mean and wait till u r treated this way. pls take it with a pinch of salt
lastly i also agree with bro The One that there should be an appear system and that system will be used if there really is any disagreement and judged by the moderators who own this site this is also to prevent any losers or useless guys with integrity pros to make a mockery of the rating system. ( sorry more work for the moderators but any improvement to this sites and ideas r welcomed correct? ) it cant be perfect but at least we can try to make it better, correct?
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Originally posted by R-oyster View PostBros, I thank you for taking time to respond to my note.
As you have correctly stated, we don't own the forum.
We are participants and ultimately, we have to trust the good judgement
of the moderators.
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Originally posted by R-oyster View PostBros, I thank you for taking time to respond to my note.
As you have correctly stated, we don't own the forum.
We are participants and ultimately, we have to trust the good judgement
of the moderators.
yup i must admit this site have good moderators and they r definately very serious in their work, (ohlins comes into mind) friendly and funy hehe (darkangel comes into mind) but good judgement does not mean always correct judgement. no offence to the moderators as we are humans, sure got a few times think wrongly. it up to us ppl to constantly maintain this website at a high level. can get tiring though i agree hehe. suppose now a person give u a bad rating (should go into personal attack haha) that u do not deserve or u think u do not deserve, maybe u can tell me what u will do?
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Originally posted by kenkelvin View Postyup i must admit this site have good moderators and they r definately very serious in their work, (ohlins comes into mind) friendly and funy hehe (darkangel comes into mind) but good judgement does not mean always correct judgement. no offence to the moderators as we are humans, sure got a few times think wrongly. it up to us ppl to constantly maintain this website at a high level. can get tiring though i agree hehe. suppose now a person give u a bad rating (should go into personal attack haha) that u do not deserve or u think u do not deserve, maybe u can tell me what u will do?- don't be too straight jacketed in one's view, with a strong notion of what's right and wrong
- don't be too oversensitive?
- don't attack everyone who has an alternative point of view.
Lastly, perhaps reflect on why someone wants to give you a bad rating
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