The one that got away.....

[Tophotdog]

What opportunity did you walk away from that you found it difficult to forgive yourself for and/or continue to feel occassional pangs of regret?

It could be it a watch deal, property deal, business deal or even relationship.

[wolfeyes1974]

Mostly relationships and missing my Dad's death by mere 5 mins...i never got the chance to bid him farewell or around him during his last hours.

[ac_wong75]

Mainly Property deals... too many to count now still recounting now at times,
if I had more gutts to sign on the line...

[cnconline]

4D. Enuff said.

[Ken3]

opportunity found it difficult to forgive myself till now
my son was born in year 2000 and year 2002 my wife got pregnant again
she not ready for second baby yet 6 weeks pregnant she decided to go for abortion
and i agree even though i not happy with her decision
two years later she decided she ready for second baby
but sadly till now she couldn't get pregnant
some times i dream baby crawling with blood on the body calling me
i be honest very sad i not firm on that time i had to agree with her decision
to share this story to all not easy for me very embarrassing suppose to be a secret
but i have to let go let god hope this help for newlyweds

it's a painful experience... the memory may not be forgotten, but u can do actively to lessen it..

bro, mayb u can consider adopting another child? give the love, care, concern and hope to another child who is already in this world, but may have unfortunately lost his/her natural parents and need u more now..

just a suggestion & i apologise for any inappropriate comments..

[eojmil]

opportunity found it difficult to forgive myself till now
my son was born in year 2000 and year 2002 my wife got pregnant again
she not ready for second baby yet 6 weeks pregnant she decided to go for abortion
and i agree even though i not happy with her decision
two years later she decided she ready for second baby
but sadly till now she couldn't get pregnant
some times i dream baby crawling with blood on the body calling me
i be honest very sad i not firm on that time i had to agree with her decision
to share this story to all not easy for me very embarrassing suppose to be a secret
but i have to let go let god hope this help for newlyweds

Baby is gods give... I have that experience with my ex girl.. When we about to get married.. She left me and went for abortion just to be with another guy... She ever said... A couple can always plan for babies but she's wrong.... Aft she got married with that guy.. They plan for babies.. But till now (18 yrs) they still can't get one even both went for medical check up and result was o.k....

What I'm trying to say here.. Sometimes it's good not to plan.. Let nature takes it course.... Who knows.. When it's time.. You will get your 2nd baby soon...

[taxico]

...They plan for babies.. But till now (18 yrs) they still can't get one even both went for medical check up and result was o.k...

sorry i have to butt in... often there will be residual scarring leftover the termination. the less skilled the doctor, the worse it may be. "result was okay" can mean a lot of things...

this scarring results in a lot of future complications when it comes to pregnancies. that's why i strongly recommend women to seek the best skilled doctor to perform abortions, and not to go to the cheapest gyne. and don't go regularly...!

as for trying to conceive when all methods have failed, the best advice is to relax and enjoy the process regularly. an unstressed relaxed couple usually see a higher chance of positive results BUT this does not mean that the feotus can be carried to term (as mentioned above and for other medical reasons).

Dr taxico

[eojmil]

sorry i have to butt in... often there will be residual scarring leftover the termination. the less skilled the doctor, the worse it may be. "result was okay" can mean a lot of things...

this scarring results in a lot of future complications when it comes to pregnancies. that's why i strongly recommend women to seek the best skilled doctor to perform abortions, and not to go to the cheapest gyne. and don't go regularly...!

as for trying to conceive when all methods have failed, the best advice is to relax and enjoy the process regularly. an unstressed relaxed couple usually see a higher chance of positive results BUT this does not mean that the feotus can be carried to term (as mentioned above and for other medical reasons).

Dr taxico

Thanks for your info..... Will inform them IF I were to see them again on street....