Venting my frustrations...

[edsonchan]

It is very difficult to have everyone agreeing with you, having the same thoughts, principle and values.

Why don't we change our own perspective. If you hold it too hard and get upset with everything or everyone who is different from what you expect them to be too often, it will become unhealthy.

Live the world as it is... stay happy

[Haolian King]

Dear bros,

I am not angry with her. Just that I am dissapointed such things happen. From what I know, the grandmother dotes on her, even took care of her for a good few years. As 1 bro said that she might avoid the funeral becos she is sad that is so not true. She went to play go-kart and massage.

Even if there is great hatred, I believe once the person dies, everything gone with the wind. All I can say is I am dissapointed...... Well I am not bothered by her nor no reasons for me to even bother with such a person.

Ya I agree with edson that just live your life and not to be bothered with what others say or do.

Cheers.

[seiko.citizen]

...
Even if there is great hatred, I believe once the person dies, everything gone with the wind. ...

im sorry to disagree with you on a sensitive topic, but when hatred enter the skin + blood, there is a point of no return. hence i always say, be fair when you are in this world; don't create possibility for hatred.

[Nooch]

Sad to hear this bro...I believe in one thing call Karma. Her kids will do this to her next time on...

[wolfeyes1974]

next time if she gets married and invites you then you don't turn up lor. When she asks, you say you having kopi see at kopi shop with friends and tell her not nice to cancel on them and attend her wedding cos arrange long time ago already.

[Haolian King]

next time if she gets married and invites you then you don't turn up lor. When she asks, you say you having kopi see at kopi shop with friends and tell her not nice to cancel on them and attend her wedding cos arrange long time ago already.

That's a good one...haha... But she already married with kid, how?

[RTS]

married liao i thought will be more mature?

[crazybay]

married liao i thought will be more mature?

I dun think tat apply to all. If married liao will be more mature then there won't be so many divorced case already.